Being the wife of a doctor requires two things 1) a complete understanding and belief in what it is that he/she does and 2) patience. I love my kids, I do. They are wonderful. I am so blessed that I get to stay home with them everyday. But seriously everyone, and I mean everyone, needs someone else to wipe a butt every now and then. Being the wife of a doctor in a city where you know very few people does not really allow for this. I mean really, if we are being completely honest with one another, I just want someone else to change one poopy diaper every two days or so! Now don't get me wrong here friends, Doc will hang in there on a poopy diaper with the best of them. So it is not that he WILL not change one, it's that he HAS not changed one. And the has not is a result of him not being here when the time is right. Forgive me for going on and on about it, but it has been too long since I have had a day where the only butt I had to wipe was my own, and too many days with too many butts can push a girl right over the edge.